May mom passed away 6 years ago, She is very smart and elegant, my mom like dressing up clean net, she had smart hand too, cooking, sewing, like make party for all Chinese holiday special Chinese new year, she will make lot different dishes, that was delicious, I have same interest like my mom, compered with my mom, one thing I don't went be like her, she has short temper so easy getting mad, my mom like play Chinese Game call " mahjon 13 tiles", lot older Chinese peoples retired nothing to do them will play the game, meet friends, exercised brain have social life.
Now talking my Dad, he is 94 years old, physical still health, mentally he is going down, he has amnesia, when he was young, Dad is very handy he can fix anything, he make end table, book case, go to adult school learning computer he was 75, he is very active so sad he can't do thing any more.
My kids when them was young, I was talking to them education is key for your future, you will have opportunity to get better life, point is you have to focus on school do you best you can, if study hard, you will get what you want, I so proud of them, my two son all finished college, have good job and started beautiful family. Happier ending.
Sounds like you have and had great parents whom you admire. Do you like to play mahjong? I'm glad your dad could be active, study, and do many things until an old age. It is sad at the end of people's lives when they can't do much. I'm sure it is a great comfort for him to have you take such good care of him. You have to be very patient. You are a great daughter! You did a wonderful job raising your sons. Now they are successful in their careers and family thanks to you!
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